trauma dumping
worry
vex
self-pity
self-stultifying
distressingness
self-destructiveness
self-abusing
vainglorious
over a barrel
aiyo
swelled
upsettable
big
cling to
crack
disquietness
pay dearly
distressingly
in need
demoralizing
distraughtness
demoralising
harass
pathic
dispiriting
disheartening
self-propelling
enstasis
psychotraumatization
distressfulness
stressfulness
ill
hand wringing
self-reproof
wither
self-punishment
egonomics
self-destructively
fret the gizzard
hardship
self-reproach
self-abuse
sen
indignity
acrasy
like turkeys voting for Christmas
worm
shut down