you cannot put the same shoe on every foot
privatism
unknown quantity
indaba
Catch-22
if it's all the same
nonchoice
don't shit where you eat
schizophrenia
caught on the hop
instantial
out of one's element
nonconfrontation
can of worms
black-and-white
irrelevant
in the same boat
unbaffled
unrelation
unconfused
what the eye doesn't see, the heart doesn't grieve over
hot potato
either-or
in the same shoes
fellow
what's up with
complication
if you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop digging
when
overlapping
situative
make a virtue of necessity
orthogonal
the grass is always greener on the other side
background
even-stevens
metaconsensus
nonfactor
bed of roses
kettle of fish
checkmate
twist in the wind
contradictoriness
might as well
stick one's nose into
insignificant
mind one's own business
oil and water don't mix
make the cheese more binding
unconnectedness
ravel
dilemmalike
sharesies
level playing field
horse of a different color
impossible event
ships that pass in the night
every rose has its thorn
nonaffair
dilemmatic
nonmarriage
Chinese puzzle
eventlessness
can't help
trouble
in a bind
misfiring
chicken and egg
state of affairs
contraindication
shoes
uncircumstanced
dilemmic
doomed if you do, doomed if you don't
place
cross that bridge when one comes to it
situationally
brainwave
out of one's depth
insight
wash
monkey wrench
betwixt and between
ex parte
picayune
brainstorm
where
whose ox is gored
play it by ear
you make the bed you lie in
swamp
out of one's league
rearrange the deck chairs on the Titanic
asymmetrical
false dilemma
no-win situation
every stick has two ends
deal a bad hand
idle