compare and despair
comparison is the thief of joy
self-despair
throw stones in a glass house
self-critical
bemoan
snookered
upsettingness
unsettling
fan the flames
take one's lumps
if you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop digging
cry the blues
tenderhearted
the grass is always greener on the other side
contrite
distressingness
self-pity
player hater
been there
ass in a sling
cry someone a river
really
talk
cry in one's beer
pity party
make a stink
check in with oneself
rub someone's nose in
too close for comfort
raise a stink
rancor
do more harm than good
despairingness
dissatisfiedness
regret
complainingness
cheer up
haul up
look who's talking
crazymaking
whiner
infuriatingness
hit
teach
sympathy
grudginess
take offense
sympathize
squeaky wheel
Job's comforter
shake up
put oneself in someone's shoes
complainer
take the fall
Christing
everything happens for a reason
burn one's fingers
feel someone's pain
feel
chalk down
regrettably
twist the knife
step forward
despairfulness
one's heart bleeds
secondhand embarrassment
reap the whirlwind
self-complacent
throw oneself on someone's mercy
raise hell
complacent
make matters worse
self-satisfied
piss on someone's bonfire
rain on someone's parade
fish in troubled waters
taste blood
grr
daze
self-torture
warn
discourage
familiarity breeds contempt
tough break
shock
make someone's teeth itch
rustle someone's jimmies
admonish
drag down
monish
put oneself in someone's place
whip the cat
give as good as one gets
fall victim
self-torment
resent
stupor
piss in someone's cornflakes
repentant